 Image by WOKANDAPIX from Pixabay Kids don’t come with a training manual. It is hard to know what to say or how to do things ‘right’ when it comes to helping them grow up. The Oak Creek Relational Counseling Center cares about providing resources to our community that can help us have hard conversations with our youth. Today’s topic is in honor of Pride Month so we are going to be talking about ways that we can discuss LGBTQ+ topics in the home. This is important to explore whether you or any of your family members identify as LGBTQ+ because right now, those populations are suffering from high rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide. According to the Trevor Project, 52% of LGBTQ youth who were enrolled in middle or high school reported being bullied in person or electronically. Transgender and nonbinary students (61%) reported higher rates of bullying compared to cisgender LGBQ students (45%). The statistic are even more harrowing for LGBTQ students of color. Overall LGBTQ youth are four times as likely to attempt suicide than their peers. These statistics can be overwhelming and leave us feeling like we are fighting an uphill battle, but the first line of action can be taken by you in your home. Starting the conversation can be the hardest part, but the Oak Creek team came up with some great starting points you can do with your actions.
Some questions that could be good to use to start the conversation come to us from EducateEmpowerKids.org.
These questions can show that you are open to talking about all topics even if it can be difficult to discuss. The concept has been labeled as, “leaving the door open.” It doesn’t mean that they need to tell you where they are with their gender or sexuality but showing that you are comfortable talking about these topics in general leaves the door open for them to come speak to you about things of that nature later if they find themselves wanting to share that with you or needing your help in protecting and caring for themselves. If you’d like a resource on speaking with children about mental health in general, take a look at one of our blogs from last month. If you are experiencing an emergency or are in crisis: please call 988, 911 or call Crisis Support Support Services at 1-800-309-2131.
To speak to one of our therapists about our counseling services and to schedule an appointment, please choose one of the following options. A therapist will contact you within two business days.
Business inquiries: call 408-320-5740 or email i[email protected]. Associate and traineeship inquiries, please visit the Clinical Internship page.  Photo by JD Mason on Unsplash In relationships, it’s common for partners to enter with their own set of values, communication styles, and emotional needs. These differences can create tension—especially when external stressors like work, finances, or parenting demands add pressure. What starts as a disagreement about how to spend an evening or who does more around the house can become part of a deeper cycle of misunderstanding and disconnection. At Oak Creek Relational Counseling Center, we see many couples who love each other deeply but feel stuck. One partner may crave quality time and shared experiences, while the other may need quiet and rest after a demanding day. Without clear and compassionate communication, each may interpret the other’s behavior as disinterest or rejection. Over time, this erodes trust and emotional safety. Therapy helps couples notice these repeating patterns and introduces new ways of connecting. Instead of jumping to conclusions or withdrawing, partners can learn to say, “I need a moment, but I want to come back to this,” or “I’m feeling unseen right now—can we check in?” These small shifts can make a big difference. Compromise doesn’t mean abandoning your values. It means co-creating space where both people feel heard and supported. Some differences may never be fully resolved, but mutual respect and curiosity about each other’s inner world can restore closeness. Even when things feel hard, repair is possible. And often, it starts with just one question: How can we come back to each other, even when we don’t agree? Oak Creek Relational Counseling Center offers compassionate support for couples navigating disconnection, stress, and change. Reach out to begin your journey toward reconnection. If you are experiencing an emergency or are in crisis: please call 988, 911 or call Crisis Support Support Services at 1-800-309-2131.
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Business inquiries: call 408-320-5740 or email i[email protected]. Associate and traineeship inquiries, please visit the Clinical Internship page.  Photo by Matt W Newman on Unsplash Every couple argues. Disagreements are a natural part of sharing a life with someone. But when arguments become the norm rather than the exception, it might be time to take a closer look at what’s really going on between you and your partner. Maybe the same fight keeps coming up over and over. Or maybe small conversations quickly turn into big blowouts. Sometimes, it’s not the volume of the conflict but the tone—sarcasm, stonewalling, walking away—that starts to wear you down. And after a while, you may find yourselves drifting into patterns that feel more like surviving than truly connecting. It’s not the argument itself, but how we repair afterward, that shapes the strength of our bond. These are signs that your relationship may be stuck in a negative cycle. In these moments, many couples begin to feel more like opponents than teammates. One partner may feel constantly criticized, while the other feels ignored or shut out. These patterns can leave both people feeling lonely, frustrated, and unsure how to fix things. The good news is: conflict doesn’t mean your relationship is broken. In fact, it can be a signal that your connection matters—and that you both want to feel seen, safe, and supported. A relationship reset begins with slowing down and becoming curious about what’s beneath the arguments. What do you each need? What are you trying to protect? Working with a couples therapist can help you both name the cycle, understand your emotional patterns, and begin to build a new way of relating—one that feels more open, respectful, and emotionally safe. If you’re stuck in recurring conflict, you’re not alone—and support is available. If you are experiencing an emergency or are in crisis: please call 988, 911 or call Crisis Support Support Services at 1-800-309-2131.
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Business inquiries: call 408-320-5740 or email i[email protected]. Associate and traineeship inquiries, please visit the Clinical Internship page.  Valentine’s Day often brings grand gestures—flowers, chocolates, and candlelit dinners. While these moments can be meaningful, the strength of a relationship isn’t built on one special day; it’s nurtured through consistent, everyday efforts. Here are ways to cultivate a deeper connection with your partner year-round. Prioritize Daily Communication - Healthy relationships thrive on open and honest communication. Make it a habit to check in with your partner daily—ask about their day, share your thoughts, and listen actively. Even small moments of connection, like a morning “goodbye” hug or a short text during the day, reinforce emotional intimacy. Express Appreciation Regularly - Instead of waiting for special occasions to express love, make gratitude a daily practice. A simple “thank you” for making coffee or a heartfelt compliment can go a long way in making your partner feel valued. Verbal affirmations, handwritten notes, or small acts of kindness can strengthen your bond over time. Prioritize Quality Time - Life’s demands can make it easy to drift apart. Scheduling intentional time together—whether it’s a weekly date night, a morning walk, or cooking dinner as a team—helps maintain closeness. Quality time doesn’t have to be extravagant; what matters is being fully present with each other. Resolve Conflicts Constructively - Disagreements are natural in any relationship, but how you handle them matters. Practice active listening, avoid blame, and work toward solutions together. Addressing conflicts with respect and understanding fosters long-term trust and emotional security. Keep the Romance Alive - Romance isn’t just for Valentine’s Day—keep it alive through small, consistent gestures. Surprise your partner with a loving text, plan a spontaneous outing, or simply hold hands more often. Thoughtfulness in everyday moments deepens emotional and physical connection. Building a strong relationship takes effort, but the rewards are lasting. By prioritizing daily habits of love, respect, and appreciation, your relationship can flourish beyond Valentine’s Day and throughout the year. If you are experiencing an emergency or are in crisis: please call 988, 911 or call Crisis Support Support Services at 1-800-309-2131.
To speak to one of our therapists about our counseling services and to schedule an appointment, please choose one of the following options. A therapist will contact you within two business days.
Business inquiries: call 408-320-5740 or email i[email protected]. Associate and traineeship inquiries, please visit the Clinical Internship page.  As the new year begins, many of us set personal goals for health, career, or personal growth. But have you considered setting goals for your relationships? Whether with a partner, family member, or friend, creating intentional goals can strengthen bonds, improve communication, and help you navigate challenges together. Start with Open Communication Healthy relationships thrive on honest dialogue. Begin by discussing what each person hopes to achieve this year. Couples might set goals like scheduling weekly date nights or practicing active listening. Families can create rituals, such as regular game nights or shared meals, to foster connection. Prioritize Emotional Wellness Emotional health is the foundation of strong relationships. Take time to reflect on your own needs and growth areas. Individual therapy can be a powerful tool for managing stress, healing from past experiences, or learning new ways to communicate. When we are emotionally healthy, we bring our best selves to our relationships. Practice Gratitude and Celebrate Milestones In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to focus on what’s not working. Instead, pause to appreciate the small moments and accomplishments. Expressing gratitude deepens connection and helps relationships flourish. Seek Support When Needed Every relationship faces challenges. Therapy provides a safe space to address conflicts, learn new skills, and create lasting change. At Oak Creek Relational Counseling Center, we work with individuals, couples, and families to help them navigate life’s complexities with care and intention. This year, consider what’s possible for your relationships. By setting thoughtful goals and making small changes, you can build stronger, healthier connections. Ready to take the next step? Contact us to schedule an appointment or learn more about our services. Let’s make 2025 a year of growth and connection. If you are experiencing an emergency or are in crisis: please call 988, 911 or call Crisis Support Support Services at 1-800-309-2131.
To speak to one of our therapists about our counseling services and to schedule an appointment, please choose one of the following options. A therapist will contact you within two business days.
Business inquiries: call 408-320-5740 or email i[email protected]. Associate and traineeship inquiries, please visit the Clinical Internship page. |
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